Salam!
So this weekend was Eid al Fitr, the breaking of the fast holiday. Unfortunately Monica went to Rabat for the weekend and missed out on the festivities. It was a lot of fun.
First we all got up and had breakfast together. This was really nice since we haven't really done meals together. Even during fast breaking the rest of the month, the kids would barely touch any food before leaving the table and the dad would barely eat anything before going out and smoking. He's been a little crabby this last month but his mood has bounced right back the last couple days :-p
Breakfast on Sunday was eaten all together as well. I guess I'm just used to eating breakfast at 7:30am then heading to school and no one's up yet. And this was my first and probably only weekend at home. So it was just soo nice to eat with the whole family.
We had what I thought was dinner around 4 but then again, real dinner was at midnight!
When we first got to Meknes, we did breakfast by ourselves because it was so early, then lunch usually out because we had to get back to class, then dinner around 6ish when we got home. But we'd be the only ones eating and I thought that was a bit weird. Then all during Ramadan Dinner was served sharp at 7:40pm because everyone was hungry.
But now, I'm pretty sure that we're through with the American guest act. They were probably told during their home stay prep that Americans like to eat around 6 so that's why they were making us meals but not eating with us because Arabs are notorious for eating a late lunch and an even later dinner. The other thing that is no longer acceptable is forks, and plates at that. Now we eat with bread and fingers as our utensils. I'm proud to say that I ate a good portion of a whole chicken with the aid of some bread. It's still difficult for me though, getting my fingers messy and not wiping them off immediately. No napkins in the house either. Just a habit from years of rules about not touching food.. Anyway, I'm really happy to be treated like a moroccan member of the family. Although I'm really not looking forward to eating dinner so late. I went to bed right after dinner at 12:30 last night and I woke up with heart burn..
Also news, is that I went to the church in Meknes this Sunday. It was nice. It's a church about the size of a small house. Like the size of two average Columbia sized family rooms. Pews but no books. Luckily I brought my bible (although I did this having been told that the services are in French). The congregation is entirely subsaharan african. All of the women were dressed up in traditional garb. If I knew my african countries better I could tell you what country most of them were from. I'm pretty sure the dress is from Niger. Ok quick google search I was right! woo me! Although there were a lot of Nigerians at Long Reach so I shouldn't be so surprised that I knew that one..
Anyway, Catholic service Saturday nights and Protestant service Sunday mornings. I was warned that the services lasted around 2 hours. So I got there on time, listened to the band finish rehearsing. We Prayed, earnestly. Which turned into song which turned into lead prayer which turned into song (with the words projected on the wall at last so I could actually sing along and make out the meaning (there are enough cognates in French when it comes to basic words of faith)) which turned into more lead prayer which suddenly became lead prayer with everyone simultaneously praying aloud passionately and speaking very quickly, pleading to God. And finally there was more song and then more lead prayer, and finally we said amen (for the first time!) after 45 minutes. Then the Leader spoke some more which must have been prayer because everyone had their heads bowed. Then people were standing, sitting, kneeling on the ground, hands raised, fingers spread towards the heavens, hands clasped pressed to their forehead and everything in between as people began praying aloud by themselves again.
The songs were mostly in French, but there was one in an African language. A quick google search leaves me pretty certain it was Hausa. And one song in English.
Finally we said amen again and the paster stood up. He gave an hour long talk. He seemed to have a good sense of humor but I didn't understand a word he said.
After two hours we sang some more, which again, was one long prayer undulating from silent prayer to song that made the walls reverberate, to individual prayer.
Then, just when I thought the service was over, we took communion. I didn't see anything for an offering in the place. There was no time for it in the service anyway.. But anyway, I thought it was all done when they said that it was time for announcements. I thought this would mean announcements about coming events or things to do with the church, but instead it was a time for people to go up to the podium and tell their stories and, I assume, from our own services in Columbia, ask for prayer from the congregation. After 5 people had spoken, each for at least 10 minutes, the congregation was sobbing and everyone was holding each other and I was completely out of the loop having not understood even a word of what anyone had said.
Finally the leader (of the band?) (or just of prayer?) stood up and began talking. And after 20 minutes it had been 3 and a half hours and I decided to leave. I felt a little bad about leaving early but I just wasn't getting anything out of it and I had promised my host mom that I'd be back by 1 or 1:30 and it was not 2:30! Also, people came in at all times. And when the last person came in near the end I was like *this isn't going to end anytime soon *
Anyway, a very interesting weekend.
And, most excitingly of all, if that is a word.. is that I slept this weekend, sleeping longly and deeply (which is a very high level sentence in Arabic :-p ) I slept Saturday to Sunday 7 hours, then a 5 hour nap after our 4pm lunch, then 5 hours over night, leaving me enough time to write this email before class. That's 17 hours over a day and a half! I'm, as arabs say it, full of sleep *shabat al nas* same word you use to mean you're full of food :-)
I'm so glad I didn't travel this weekend. I got to experience Eid with the family and I got to experience church in Meknes, and most importantly I finally caught up on sleep from my slight relapse 2 weeks ago. I'm finally feeling 100% again and ready for allllllll that is in store for me this week!
il al liqaw!



